Showing posts with label mommy's thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mommy's thoughts. Show all posts

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Press of time

Posted by CHAT at 4:57 PM 0 comments

Let me just rant.

Exactly one week from now, my little boy J will turn five. Since all his classmates celebrated their birthdays in their school, he was expecting the same too. At first, we were kind of sceptical at the idea as our funds are not that big for such. However, I saw a light when my company announced that our performance bonus will be credited to our account on the 28th. The husband gave me a go signal to allot part of it for h is party.

By then, I started to make a list of things to buy as well as the budget for the party. I have even hired a graphic artist to make his invite which was paid by PayPal money.

The party was a go – not?

Until now, which is the last working day of the week and Monday is already the 28th of the month – there was still no announcement or general assembly about our bonus. I have to order his cake today but I can’t because of it.

I do not know what to do. I can’t break my son’s heart.

I am a bad mom…

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

I am still h ere

Posted by CHAT at 3:51 PM 0 comments

It’s been a while since my last post here. Motherhood plus my corporate job has taken a toll of me. It was kinda hard to juggle all my responsibilities now most especially that the kids are growing up fast.

My son will be turning five next week and that makes me think of wanting to really quit my job and just be with them – that is, if I could.

I promise to update this soon – when work is lesser and stress is out of the way.

See you later!

Friday, November 5, 2010

The pains of weaning

Posted by CHAT at 8:16 AM 0 comments

I feel guilty. I feel I am a bad mommy.

It has been three days now that I don’t let baby C nurse on me. I am currently taking a magic coffee thus making my milk not anymore safe for her. And so, I wean her cold turkey style. Thankfully, I still didn’t feel the swelling breasts including the pain that reaches until the arm pit. I can still raise my arm, yahoo!

However, baby C started to become restless and almost doesn’t have a good sleep. She became so whiny and extra clingy. I am actually this.close to giving in but I always remind myself not to.

I just hope baby C wouldn’t feel I love her less now that I weaned her. I really feel guilty.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

A lil shopping

Posted by CHAT at 2:08 PM 0 comments

My online friend Peachy had a bargain sale on her Flickr. She was selling pre-loved clothes of her kids. Good thing, my Paypal money is still intact, I was able to score some good deals for my little princess.

Here are the things I bought:

CK hoodie Calvin Klein hoodie

fleurette bubble dress Fleurette bubble dress

fox baby cotton top Fox baby cotton top / dress

twilo Twilo dress

gingersnaps Gingersnaps top

My loots are not yet over $20, isn’t that great? I heard she would still posts a few more items in the coming days so I asked her to just put my items safe as I would look for a few more before she ships it to my address. I’m hoping to grab something for the Kuya in the coming days.

Monday, October 11, 2010

How? Why?

Posted by CHAT at 6:34 PM 0 comments

How would you answer your toddler’s never ending questions?

My son is now in the stage when he questions a lot of things, most of them from what he observed around him. Most of time, I ran out of answers to his never ending questions. I know his brain is like a sponge where every minute details and information feed on him will be stored forever. And so, I am very much careful and how to answers it although my patience wears out sometimes.

Here are some examples of his questions:

Where does my food go? Where does my milk / water / juice go?

Where does pupu / wiwi came from?

Why do I have booger?

Why does the water moves when I move (pertaining to the water in the pool)?

Sunday, September 26, 2010

School activities

Posted by CHAT at 10:35 AM 0 comments

Sneak preview of my son’s consecutive activities in school.

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Stay tune for the stories of his field demo presentation during their Foundation Day and his field trip at Sta. Elena Fun Farm and Lucky Me! Noodle Factory.

Friday, September 17, 2010

English speaking

Posted by CHAT at 9:16 AM 0 comments

The first and foremost reason why we enrolled my eldest in Ann Arbor Montessori in BF is for him to learn English faster. I got frustrated when I wasn’t successful teaching him how to speak English in an early age. I so badly wanted to have then an English-speaking son. He understands the language but is not a speaker of it.

After three months of attending school, I can say we have made the right decision. Although he prefers to speak Tagalog over English, we can still hear him speak English every now and then. Here are some of the examples:

May I go to the restroom?

Please open.

Thank you!

Please open the light.

Don’t bite me.

And oh! I am no more a mommy and the husband is no longer a daddy as he now calls us Mom and Dad, LOL!

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

All over the house

Posted by CHAT at 10:20 AM 0 comments

IMG_6464 Claire started to cruise the house at ten months. By the time she turned eleven months, she was walking on her own. No, she never had the chance to try using a walker. And after she turned one year old just a month ago, she is all over the house. She can climb the stairs which gives us heart attack and usually hides under our dining table. Yes, she can play hide and seek now. I think it’s all because her playmates were all boys including Joshua who treats her as a grown-up – not babyish treatment.

As my mom usually says to me, she can no longer be out of our sight. Here’s what BabyCenter says on how to handle a toddler that loves to climb.

  1. Provide safe climbing options
  2. Supervise, but don’t stress out
  3. Teach your child to climb down
  4. Accept that kids fall
  5. Divert and distract
  6. Climb proof your house
  7. Discipline effectively

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Missing my kids

Posted by CHAT at 12:12 PM 0 comments

DSC05375 Tonight is the start of my night shift schedule. It’ll be a long two months for me and my family. The sacrifice of not having “night sleep” is bearable but spending the night without the kids is something I do not know until when I can manage.

I won’t be able to lull them to sleep. My Claire will surely look for me during the wee hours of the morning when she needs to nurse. My Joshua will have no choice but his father to wake him up in the morning and give him a bath before he goes to school.

And when they are all active and hyper during the morning, I am locked in the room and sleeping. Oh, the pains of being a working mother.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Today

Posted by CHAT at 5:20 PM 0 comments

is the day of AAM’s culminating program for Buwan ng Wika. Like what I posted here, the CASA pupils were asked to bring Filipino dish good for 5 people for the salo-salo. I was supposed to buy Goldilocks Tropical puto. Yesterday after our shift, I asked my colleague to accompany me to the nearest store near our building only to find out that they have already run out of stock. We went to three more stores around Makati but hear the same line “ubos na po.”

And since it was already way past 7pm and we can’t find a store that sells puto, we went to Glorietta’s foodcourt and saw a stall that makes delightfully happy. I asked the seller if the food is easily spoiled as it’ll be eaten by the kids the next day. She said she won’t just add butter and sugar so it won’t be spoiled. She even commented that there is no need to put the food on the fridge.

The food that solves my problem yesterday was Bibingkinitan. For Php 120, I went home with 6 bibingkas. Been eating this for a long time now but totally forgot about it when I was dead focused on buying puto.

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Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Agape party

Posted by CHAT at 5:45 PM 0 comments

In celebration of Joshua’s school’s Buwan ng Wika, all the CASA pupils are requested to bring Filipino food to share with their classmates. The food should be good for 5 children only. Rice will be provided for each class.

At first, I decided to buy the famous Malabon’s Sapin-sapin. However, according to the recent memo the school gave, Joshua needs to bring either bibingka or puto. Of course, I don’t want my mom to get stressed out by preparing bibingka so we decided to buy puto instead.

Our choice is Goldilocks Tropical Puto. The party will be tomorrow so I have to drop by the nearest store before heading home later this afternoon.puto

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

What to wear (part 2)

Posted by CHAT at 12:18 AM 0 comments

Remember this post about my son’s Linggo ng Wika program on Friday? After searching for a costume for him and ended up borrowing my cousin’s Muslim costume, I was devastated and lost my excitement when I talked to his teacher yesterday morning. According to Teacher Angel, it was only the girls who are required to wear costumes while the boys wear their usual PE uniforms. They still need to bring Filipino dish though.

Good thing we didn’t pursue in buying a costume for him. I am still making him bring the costume on Friday just in case.

Friday, August 20, 2010

What to wear?

Posted by CHAT at 5:03 PM 0 comments

I am one cramming mommy again. Just yesterday, Joshua arrived home with a memo from the school. They need to be in a Filipinana costume on the 27th for the culminating program of Buwan ng Wika. Aside from that, they also need to bring Filipino food good for 5. The food is no-brainer, I can just go ahead and buy sapin-sapin or any native delicacies readily available in the grocery store. What makes my head spin around is his costume. I dare not want him to wear the common Barong Tagalog nor the Camiso Chino with red pants. My cousin has a vest/pants costume that looks like a Maranao costume. He’ll fit it once I get home and if ever it doesn’t fit, good luck to Mommy!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Everyday school baon

Posted by CHAT at 8:31 PM 0 comments

I can’t believe how time really flies so fast. Joshua has been in big school for more than two months now, turning three months when August ends. That means, he has been eating cookies and cupcakes and breads day after day, five times a week as his baon. I’m one mother who has lost all the ideas of what to give him for recess. Good thing I found an article written by Tita Amy sharing 10 gourmet pandesal baon treats for the kids.

 

10 Gourmet pandesal baon treats for your kids

 

School’s back! For moms, this could only mean one thing - a whole new year of facing the biggest challenge all mothers with school-age kids must deal with everyday: what baon to prepare for their growing kids.

 

As for me, the start of school takes me back to the late 70s when opening my fifth grade red and green checkered lunch box meant anticipating what treats could be found inside. However, despite holding my breath before opening it each time, my lunch kit held the same thing everyday: fresh calamansi juice. I don’t know what possessed my mom but she made me fresh calamansi juice everyday such that my Thermos jug smelled of freshly-squeezed calamansi even if it only had water in it.

 

And every single day, my daily calamansi juice came with one thing: a pandesal with some kind of filling in it. This was the 70's, a time when it was totally uncool to eat pandesal in school. The cool kids had sandwiches with different types of palaman (fillings) – ham and cheese, hotdogs, burgers, corned beef and luncheon meat. They were the rich kids—the ones who raved about having a taste of pizza pie (yes, it was known to be a pie back then), most likely from 3M. To keep my lowly pandesal from my seatmates’ condescending eyes, there was only thing I could do—gobble it up in two bites.

 

Fast forward some 30 years and I’ve had just about as much pizza as any grown woman could possibly eat or want. But the age-old question remains: what would your kid’s baon be today, tomorrow, and the day after that? The quick answer still is: a sandwich. Some bread with some kind of filling in it.

 

The only difference is that today, my pandesal and my sassy seatmate’s “tasty bread" a.k.a. American white bread could be whole wheat, 5-grain, sugar-free, even a snooty foccacia. And now, the variety of palaman to fill them with are just as mind-boggling, and hence, preparing our kids’ baon has become more challenging—and fun!

 

What type of bread should go with what type of palaman? Would peanut butter and jelly go well on foccacia? And the even bigger dilemma: is a sandwich enough to fill a growing child’s daily nutritional needs? Will a sandwich of barely-there ham and mayo sustain your kid through the challenges of the day? Can your kid show off and share his or her sandwich with his or her bestie (bestfriend)?

 

If I were to be a fifth-grader all over again and armed with my now grown-up knowledge of food and all things good and edible, my grubby hands would be reaching for gourmet sandwiches that are packed with flavor and of course, healthy. But even with all the different types of bread out there, my choice for bread still remains to be the humble pandesal, which can either be whole wheat or sugar free. It goes well with the calamansi juice that my Nanay Lily used to make and it can hold a motley of spreads and fillings that can take the pandesal to a new level of gourmet distinction.

 

Here are 10 Gourmet Pandesal ‘Wiches guaranteed to make any kid the toast of the class every recess time – all homemade and with very few processed ingredients:

 

1. CHICKEN ADOBO and KESONG PUTI

Spread some butter on each side of the pandesal and toast. Put a slice of kesong puti on the bottom side and top with shredded chicken adobo.

 

2. SMOKED SALMON

Whole-wheat pandesal with smoked salmon garnished lettuce, a slice of tomato and cucumber. Use cream cheese spread instead of mayonnaise on the pandesal slices.

 

3. GRILLED VEGETABLES

Slice a jumbo (oversized) pandesal into half. Mix two cloves of minced garlic into ¼ cup of mayonnaise. Grill some sliced eggplants, tomato, bell peppers and zucchini. Spread the garlic mayonnaise on each Panini slice and layer the grilled veggies on the sandwich.

 

4. TURKEY HAM

Whole wheat pandesal with turkey ham and low-fat mayo, lettuce, a slice of tomato and cucumber. Just make sure you don’t put just one thin slice of turkey ham on the sandwich—three would be just about right.

 

5. BEEFY BURGER

Make some homemade burger patties with lean ground beef, onions, minced garlic and carrots and season with pepper, salt, a dash of Worcestershire sauce. Top with a slice of low-fat cheese and garnish with lettuce, tomato and cucumber or a pickle.

 

6. PINOY BRUSCHETTA

Cut a pandesal into several ¼-inch thick slices (just like crostini slices). Mix some minced garlic into 2 tbsp of butter. Spread on the crostini-pandesal and toast. Combine cubed kesong puti, chopped tomatoes, minced garlic, ¼ tsp of dried basil, a dash of Italian seasoning and pepper, and 2-3 teaspoons of olive oil. Put the mixture in a small leak-proof plastic container. To eat, spread some of the tomato-kesong puti mixture onto the pandesal.

 

7. CHUNKY TUNA

Mix some flaked tuna (in water) with low-fat mayo, pickle relish and minced onions (not too much). Spread on the pandesal. May be served with lettuce and a slice of low-fat cheese.

 

8. CHICKEN GALANTINA

Make your own chicken galantina or embotido using ground chicken breast (500g), 3 tbps minced bell peppers, ¼ cup minced onions, ¼ cup minced carrots, ¼ cup grated cheese, 2 tbsps catsup, ¼ cup breadcrumbs, 2 tbps. flour and an egg. Season with salt and pepper. Shape mixture into an embotido on aluminum foil. Seal both ends well. Steam over boiling water for 40 minutes and let it cool. You may do this before hand and keep in the chiller until you are ready to make your sandwich. Slice your pandesal in half, spread some low-fat mayo on each side and put a ½ -inch slice of chicken galantina.

 

9. SPANISH SARDINES

Saute two tablespoons of chopped onions then put in the Spanish sardines. Spread low-fat mayonnaise on pandesal slices and put just enough of the Spanish sardines-onion mixture. Add a pickle slice or two if you like. You may serve with scrambled eggs on the side and tomato and cucumber slices.

 

10. CHICKEN PESTO

Of course, you can always just buy a bottle of pesto sauce in a grocery but it’s better to make your homemade pesto using chopped cashew nuts, basil, parmesan cheese, minced garlic and some olive oil. Put everything in a food processor, pulse and reduce to a spreadable mixture. Flake some cooked chicken breast. Spread homemade pesto on each slice of the pandesal and top with the flaked chicken.

 

The varieties of healthy baon treats for your kids are endless. Of course, it’s always easier to just make a corned beef or hotdog sandwich but it’s a good way to start them young on good eating habits. Train your kid to be a little gourmet eater and while you’re at it, put in a fruit cup, a banana, a bunch of grapes or sliced mangoes, papaya or melons in his or her lunch box. It’s a healthy way to sweeten your kids’ day and trust me, they’ll remember and love you more for it.

 

GMA News

My breast is still the best

Posted by CHAT at 12:13 AM 0 comments

No need for an explanation why until now, even if not exclusively, I still breastfeed my little girl.

Breastfeeding, also called nursing, is an easy, inexpensive and healthy way to feed your infant. Recommendations are to breastfeed your newborn for the first 12 months of life because of the many benefits to both you and your baby. However, it's important to know that the American Academy of Pediatricians recommends breastfeeding for those women who don't have health problems.

 

Benefits to baby

Breastfeeding offers many benefits to your baby. Breast fed babies have lower rates of asthma, gastroenteritis, and ear infections, as well as higher levels of development and intelligence. Breast milk contains two specific fatty acids that may help increase the infant's brain development. Breast fed infants, and those who are fed expressed breast milk, have fewer deaths during the first year. Not only that, but breast fed infants have fewer illnesses than babies fed formula. Finally, breast milk helps prevent common childhood illnesses and infections.

 

Benefits to mom

Breastfeeding offers many benefits to you as a mother. These benefits include a more rapid return of uterine tone, postpartum weight loss, delay of ovulation, and decreased risk of breast, ovarian, and endometrial cancers. There is evidence that indicates many mothers that breastfeed have fewer episodes of postpartum depression.

 

Lactation consultants

Breastfeeding offers many benefits to you and your baby. If you are breastfeeding and experiencing difficulty contact your health center, healthcare provider's office or hospital for help. A lactation consultant, someone trained to help women with breastfeeding, may be able to help you. Ask your healthcare provider for more information about getting help with breastfeeding.

 

When not to breastfeed

In certain situations, women are advised not to breastfeed. This may be due to certain health conditions, medicines or a chronic illness. It is always important to discuss with your healthcare provider how you plan to feed your baby.

 

Yahoo Health

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Christmas gifts

Posted by CHAT at 11:33 PM 0 comments

Would you believe that as early as now, I am already scouting for gifts for Joshua’s teachers, teacher aide, classmates and CASA guards. Seriously! I have already listed a few items and if budget permits, these will materialize. I’m just having a hard time as to what to give to his classmates as they were 19 of them.

I found out this uber cute personalized keychain made from Polymer Clay. This was is from Poxee Shop.DSC01512Ain’t it cute? I have already inquired about it and sad to say, I have to cross it out as a Christmas gift for his classmates. It’ll be expensive to order 19 pieces of it. But I’m thinking of giving this out though to my girl colleagues.

So, I have to look for alternative gifts for his classmates. On my list includes sugar cookies which I think is a very, very safe and common gift during Christmas. What else can we give? Any ideas?

Thursday, July 29, 2010

3 pieces of ponkan

Posted by CHAT at 6:08 PM 0 comments

I was almost in panic yesterday night when out of the blue, I check my son’s school bag. You see, it was my mom who checks his bag right after school. I saw two letters. One is a reminder about our financial obligation to the school (aka: tuition fee dues) and other one is a note.

July 27, 2010

 

Good day!

 

We will be having our kitchen activity on Friday, July 30, 2010. Please bring the following:

 

3 pcs. of ponkan

1 tablespoon of sugar

1 plastic cup

 

Thank you!

For Pete’s sake! The letter was dated 27th of July. The letter was sitting all along in his bag. I forced the husband to go to the wet market or straight to the nearby grocery store to buy ponkans.

Lesson Learned: Always check your son’s bag.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

A Child's Ten Commandments to Parents

Posted by CHAT at 11:13 PM 0 comments

I thought of sharing a forwarded mail to me.

1. My hands are small. Please don't expect perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture or throw a ball. My legs are short. Please slow down so that I can keep up with you.

 

2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have. Please let me explore safely. Don't restrict me unnecessarily.

 

3. Housework will always be there. I'm only little for such a short time.Please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world, and do so willingly.

 

4. My feelings are tender. Please be sensitive to my needs. Don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness.) Treat me as you would like to be treated.

 

5. I am a special gift from God. Please treasure me, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner.

 

6. I need your encouragement and your praise to grow. Please go easy on the criticism. Remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.

 

7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday, I'll be prepared to make the kind of decisions life requires of me.

 

8. Please don't do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite measure up to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please don't try to compare me with my brother or my sister.

 

9. Please don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids. Besides, it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very special.

 

10. Please take me to worship regularly, setting a good example for me to follow.

I am guilty on some of those. I promised myself to be a better parent to my kids compared to how I am as a parent now.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Claire’s ATE

Posted by CHAT at 5:09 PM 0 comments

Claire has started to mumble a lot of stuff but I don’t get to count how many words she can say, unfortunately. She can say PAPA, MAMA, DEDE, LO (hello) and a lot of words. Sure thing you’d think I was the one she was referring to as MAMA – not! She calls me ATE. (a-te) She calls her stuff toy ATE.

ate: n.from chinese: ate. first born daughter. Nowadays in Tagalog it usually refers to an elder sister but is also used as a form to show familiar respect to someone no too much older than the speaker.

I came clear to me when we were on the bed and she was playing beside her dad. She crawled on my side, raise my shirt and says “ATE DEDE.” Hubby laughed when he heard it. Joshua even commented, “No, she is not ATE, she is our MOM.”

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Weaning from a bottle

Posted by CHAT at 5:43 PM 0 comments

DSC05407 When is the right time to wean your kid from a bottle? As you can see my oldest who is 4 years and 4 months, already a toddler, is still drinking his milk from the bottle. We have tried to introduce him to a cup, even buying a cute glass so to say, but it only lasted a month. When his sister arrived, he insisted to drink milk in his bottle.

As I don’t want to get stressed during that time, I agreed to what he wants. Now, we’re having difficulty to let him drink milk on a cup. We are noticing an increase in his milk intake. He is now drinking milk four times a day.

Here are some strategies I need to employ to completely wean him from his bottle:

  1. Offering milk in a cup before every bottle feeding.
  2. Weaning gradually.
  3. Leaving the morning bottle for last.
  4. Cuddle and explain.

You can read the whole article here. You may also want to read this article.

 

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